Why Elope?
Many couples believe that a traditional wedding is the only option they have within the wedding arena and I am here to tell you that there is another option. You may have thought about having an elopement but do not know how it works or how to go about planning one. You may have no clue what an elopement is but are interested in knowing what one is. An elopement by most definitions is "running away" and getting married in a secretive way without anyone knowing. Crazy right? No! At heart, I believe getting married "alone" is such a beautiful experience you can share with your partner and close loved ones. The modern day elopement has a similar dynamic except it is so much more than many think it is. You can still have the wedding day of your dreams without sacrificing the luxury and the style. An elopement can be a gorgeous, amazing and affordable alternative to the big headache and struggles of a large, traditional wedding.
Where would you elope?
Just like the venue is a vital part in planning a traditional wedding...so is choosing the location in which you will elope. A huge benefit in eloping is having this experience in a beautiful destination you and your partner have dreamed of going to or having it at a destination with significant meaning to the both of you. When choosing the location, consider the backdrop, scenery and extravagance of it. This is your love story and you want it told in the most beautiful way!
Questions to ask before you decide to elope
What do you both really want?
Discuss your motivations and expectations.
What is your budget and what can you afford?
Discuss what you would like to pay and the priorities of your budget.
Pro's of Eloping
You will save money
A traditional wedding can cost anywhere from $20,000 and all the way up from there. The average cost of an elopement can begin anywhere from $1000-$15,000 depending on what goes into it.
You will stay focused on your partner
When having a traditional wedding, there is so much you need to keep track of. With everything you have to worry about, you can easily lose sight of the importance of what you two are there to do as well as staying present with your partner. When you elope, it is just the two of you. You won't have the pressure of having to maintain the performance of it all. That alone may be so freeing for couples whose sole desire is to celebrate each other. You plan for the marriage not the wedding.
You will spend less time on logistics and plan your day your way
You will not need to meet with a ton of different vendors, have call after call, email after email, give up weekends or spend months planning. An elopement is not a one-size-fits-all. It can be planned exactly how you want it to be with no restrictions or guidelines.
You can get married anywhere
Ever dreamed of traveling to a beautiful location but never had the chance, budget or time to? Imagine getting married there? You can choose any location you want to have your elopement. Having that freedom to choose ANYWHERE is liberating and joyous because you are the creator of how your love story will be told.
Caleb + Ariana
Collin + Victoria